Here’s my boy helping to wash up after lunch – how cute!
Washing up is one of the things I’ve wanted to introduce to the children for some months, in the spirit of helping them to learn about the day to day tasks involved in running a home and nurturing a family. Yes, they are young to be doing housework, but in the spirit of Steiner Waldorf – the younger the better!
Every week they help to clean the house. Mostly they do the dusting with a damp cloth, but they also help to scrub the floor, which they love doing. On a daily basis, the children tidy their own beds, help to prepare food, set the table for meals, sort through clean laundry prior to helping to put it away, and of course, tidy up their own toys and playthings. I’ve got two young but very helpful little people!
But until this week, I’ve not really pursued the washing up idea. Why? Because there are some tasks which are just too tricky with two little children, close in age, who are extremely competitive. I’ve tried this task in the past, but it just ended up causing me a lot of stress … not the result I was looking for! But now that the little Miss is in school full-time, I’ve many hours just with the little fellow.
He wants me to interact pretty much all the time we’re together. Which isn’t really possible, is it? He misses having his sister to play with and so Mum is the second best choice… actually third best, after Daddy ;-)
Like plenty of other Mums, I find the best way to stay sane and serene is to include my little children in my activities rather than “faking it” by joining in their activities even when I’m not really interested. Don’t get me wrong, some games and toys I absolutely love playing. But, naturally, I’m not interested in all the same pastimes as my young ones.
Which brings me back to the washing up. As you know I like to wash up after lunch. Now I’ve a little helper too. A bit of water play in the middle of every day – now that’s got to be fun in any toddlers book, hasn’t it?
How about you? How do you include other family members, children and adults (!) in your daily activities?



































